When Suzanne’s son, Lorenzo, was a little boy, he told his family that when he grew up, he would be a police officer. He even drew a picture of himself as a policeman. After finishing high school, he instead studied computers and looked to follow in his dad’s footsteps. Then, one day, when Lorenzo was in his mid-twenties, he surprised his mom with a phone call. ‘Mama Bear,’ he said, ‘I need to talk to you.’ Suzanne responded by asking if she should be worried. ‘Maybe a little bit, Mama Bear,’ he replied, but it’s OK.’ Lorenzo shared that he couldn’t work behind a desk any longer. He needed to help people and become a police officer.
Although Suzanne was a little worried, she was also so proud of her son. She knew that he would be an amazing addition to the police force. He loved helping others. in his soul, Suzanne said that he was born to be a lover of people. She says that no one ever loved her as deeply as Lorenzo did. It was so fun to talk to her about their amazing relationship and about how, above all else, Lorenzo wanted to take care of his ‘Mama Bear.’ It reminded me a little bit about Andy, his big, loving heart, and the way he always insisted that he ‘loved me more’ despite my protests.
Shortly after Lorenzo realized his dream of becoming a police officer, however, he suffered a tragic accident when he was cleaning his gun. His gun discharged and he shot an artery in his leg. Although he was able to call for help, it was too late. Amid this tragedy, Suzanne saw that Lorenzo’s community loved him just as much as he loved them. Officers stood at attention at every freeway exit in southern California as the car carrying his body drove by. Thousands honored her sweet, loving Lorenzo.
As we talked, I began to wonder if our two ‘boys’ somehow brought us together. I imagine a proud Andy telling everyone in heaven about his mom and her podcast, and Lorenzo thinking the podcast might be a good idea for his ‘Mama Bear’ to help her heal. When Suzanne emailed me, she wrote that I was her ‘angel’ who ‘saved’ her, but I’m pretty sure the ‘angel’ was actually Lorenzo setting things in motion.
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